Summary

Everyone just keep clawing at you again and again until there is nothing left. Hard to even open up again. That’s what feeling like a disgrace is like. Every one of your flaws magnified and made fun of. Being in the spotlight for all the wrong reasons. Can’t even disappear if you wanted to. Every one is against you. Hates you. Avoids you. How do we change this?
We can do wrong things, but we never lose our value as a person.
- Human beings have it’s own worth as a human being just as a deer is designed to be treated like a deer. You don’t treat a gun like pencil, because the values of the objects are different. The attributes are different. It’s identity and value doesn’t change. Nor will your identity and value as a human being. We can commit crimes, make huge mistakes, or have major flaws, but you are still human. We are all human. We should be treated like humans. If you feel disgraced, remember that you are still just as valuable as any other people. This won’t change your situation, but this is to help you ground your sense of identity.
You can change a lot of the influences around you by being with the right people.
- People have the most amount of influence on us. The community we spend the most time with can nurture you or destroy you. When you feel incredibly disgraced in the group consistently, change your group. Friends can really make or break you. Seek out people with integrity and confidence, not just popularity or looks. Finding the right community will escalate your self esteem. Search out actively for people of character and willing to help others.