Summary
- As people, we definitely need good quality relationships to have a fulfilling life. However, sometimes it feels like the relationships currently around us isn’t the ones we want. Some people might be too critical, and other people gossip about you. Why is THIS happening?! I wish I had peaceful and encouraging relationships. The reason lies in what you are attracting to yourself. What we show to the world is what will attract the world to us.
- You attract what you put out.
- Why do we attract what we don’t want then? - The sad truth is we actually don’t know exactly how other people sees us. How we see ourselves doesn’t always match how others see us. We might be thinking we’re being very supportive to a friend, but in reality, she might be thinking we’re really annoying. We might be friendly to someone, but he or she might think otherwise. If our perception doesn’t meet reality, then this is most likely why. We have to be very honest in accepting the fact that others might think of us differently than we see ourselves.
- Have you wonder why you and your friends share the same interests? - Similar people attract each other! Why is it that people of the same race gather in the same neighborhoods? They like each other. They can relate with one another better. They share more of the same interest together. You and your friends share some kind of interest together, and it’s the one you show to the world. It can be your looks, personality, finance, career, or fashion. Your current friends all share something the group can relate to. This means if you want friends that appreciate your personality, show your personality more, so they can find you. We all can do it!
- Most of us want ALL of us to be accepted, not just our looks, intellect, or career.
- We want to have quality relationships. - Life is incomplete without good quality relationships. There are tons of CEOs out there that are miserable, because his/her family is broken. Make sure to find individuals accepting of the complete you. I know I know... they are hard to find, but keep trying. We are definitely NOT LACKING critical people; however, don’t settle for them. On the other hand, there are also people that like you just for your looks or money, which is very shallow. It might feel good for a little bit, but deep down you know they are not your friends. As soon as things get tough, they are gone like the wind.
- Put out high quality traits, and you will attract the same thing.
- If you show that you are a tennis lover, you will find passionate tennis players. If you memorized all the products on Vogue catalogue, you will get people that cares about their looks. If you show your love and kindness, people valuing the same things will find you too. What kind of relationship do you want? Which type of relationship is most fulfilling for you? Also please examine yourself and surround yourself with amazing faithful support generals.
- If you like to help all of become better friends, please share what is the top trait you want in your friend and why?