I bet you have a lot of time right now if you are thinking about how awful you are as a person. Why don’t we change that?
It is pretty much a tough love post, because we need it.
It doesn’t matter if we are anxious, have social problems or can’t make friends. If we are not taking steps to improve, nothing is going to happen. No change is going to happen. I know we don’t want to stay in pain for the rest of our lives, so let’s move forward as much as it is hard.
I know you might not think this is true, but you are a valuable person. Why? Because just by being created as a person, I believe you should have the value and respect as a person. Just like how an orange has the value of an orange. You can’t make an orange less of an orange.
Hopefully…you got my point!
Every moment we have a choice. We can decide to give up or keep going. I’d say keep going, because you are worth it. Because as long as you are living, you have potential. You are not gonna doubt me again right?
Let’s Move Forward
List out your insecurities. Every single one of them. The more we are aware of our fears, the more we can address it. To overcome our fears, we have to understand it first.
Now for every one of your insecurities, write a counterpoint on why you shouldn’t be insecure about it. This is to help you mentally break the cycle of looking to the negatives all the time.
One step at a time. Tripping counts.